Quiet Is Not the Same as Managed: What Good Management Actually Sounds Like
Sep 30, 2026Click the play bar below to listen to this episode:
A chatty classroom is not necessarily out of control, and a quiet classroom is not automatically well managed. In this episode of Beginning Teacher Talk, Dr. Lori explains how clear expectations can help students understand when talking supports learning, when quiet is needed, and how to move successfully between the two.
Show Notes:
In Part Three of the Impossible Standards Series, Dr. Lori challenges the belief that a well-managed classroom should be quiet most of the day. She explains why classroom management is not about controlling children or eliminating conversation; it is about teaching students the purpose, boundaries, and procedures for the learning happening right now. You’ll also learn how to design the sound, movement, participation, and attention-return routine before an activity begins so your students know exactly what successful participation looks and sounds like.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why a quiet classroom is not always a well-managed classroom
- How to match the sound, movement, and participation to each activity
- Why clear boundaries and expectations support a shared learning space
- How to teach a chatty class when talking is invited and when it is time to listen
- How fresh attention-getters can strengthen predictable classroom routines
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You do not need to silence your students all day to have a well-managed classroom. Instead, decide what kind of sound fits the learning, teach students what participation should look like, and give them a predictable way to return their attention to you.
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Dr. Lori Friesen | Beginning Teacher Mentor
Creator of the R.E.A.D.Y. for School Academy and The Classroom Management Club, Dr. Lori Friesen has mentored thousands of beginning teachers across the country through her workshops and courses. Host of the popular podcast Beginning Teacher Talk and author of Dear New Teacher, Here's Exactly What to Do, Dr. Lori is dedicated to serving educators and inspiring learners. Learn more at drlorifriesen.com.
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